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I took mom's car keys away 4 years ago. It's still not OK.
When I asked Mom if she wanted to talk about not owning a car, she glared at me. The topic made her angry. “When you’ve lost your independence, it’s everything. You live in a completely different world,” she said, leaving the room. I followed her, asking …